It is new year already – and with the new year there have been tons of new year resolution posts for moms, dads and every one else. I have been going through them as I usually don’t make resolution due to it being either unrealistic or extremely difficult to achieve – so I was looking for a list, that makes sense to me and is achievable. And woila, I have found one perfect list – it suits my requirements, and it is a bit open ended so you have room to make adjustments based on your setup and requirements but in general covers everything that you would want to achieve this new year. So here is my favorite New Year Resolution’s List:
This year is going to be different. In the years gone by, you may have made a lot of resolutions. Some you may have kept, but more than likely you did not follow through with most of them. As you have gotten older, wiser, and busier, you may find yourself not wanting to make the same mistakes with your New Year’s resolutions this year. In fact, you may be thinking of skipping the tradition all together. This year, however, is the perfect time for you to make some “new” New Year’s resolutions. Instead of making your already busy life busier or pressuring yourself to be the perfect wife and mother, why not change your thinking and your life with some easy resolutions for the super mom. Yes super mom –— that’s you!
Easy New Year’s Resolutions to Simplify Your Life
This year I resolve to create an easy daily routine I can live with.
You may manage to get the kids fed, dressed and ready for the day without having a great daily routine but you may find the morning chaos leaves you feeling frazzled and exhausted. Getting yourself and your kids into an easy daily routine will not only simplify your life but it will cut down on arguments, stress and leave you feeling better about yourself. Here is an example of a very easy daily routine that any busy mom can do. Morning: make your bed, wipe down the bathroom, and take something out for dinner. Evening: get everyone’s clothes, shoes, etc. set out for the next day, give the kids a bath, brush teeth, and put them to bed, and make sure the kitchen is clean before bed time.
For me to achieve this easy routine, I need to know what am I making for dinner and need to have just enough groceries for that , I need to make sure I have enough wipes and diapers – best thing to do – Amazon Prime, Amazon Mom and Subscribe and Save are my favorites. Target is my goto grocery place to make sure I have everything I need.
This year I resolve to get fit and healthy the easy way.
Last year you may have tried the membership to the gym or maybe purchased a treadmill or piece of exercise equipment for yourself. Of course, you would love to have time for going to the gym or getting in a great workout at home. You want this year to be different right? Well there is no reason you can’t get fit and healthy without all the fuss. Resolve to start doing mini-workouts. Try to fit in a mini-workout or two as often as you can. Some ideas for mini-workouts are dancing with the kids, tightening your stomach muscles on your drive to work, or a walk after dinner. You can also do some mini strength training workouts with hand weights or using your body for resistance. Even doing a light fifteen minute workout a few times a week will help you get in shape and stay healthy. You don’t have to make exercise a chore. Just fit in some type of exercise into your daily routine and keep it simple
I try to achieve this by doing some light weight training. I use 3 lbs weight – the goal here is to stay fit, if you loose some weight doing so that is great but end goal is not to loose weight – try these great Weights from Amazon to do may be 15 minutes work out daily -
This year I resolve to eat more meals at home.
If you are a busy mom you probably end up eating out more often than you would like. This is not the most healthy way to eat and you may be adding to some of your financial stress by eating out all the time. This year resolve to make cooking easier. Now this may go against some of the frugal living tips you may have heard but sometimes spending less isn’t really costing you less. When you go grocery shopping, think about what is convenient and easy for you. You may end up paying a little more for groceries by buying meals that are easier to prepare, but this is still cheaper than eating out. What a lot of busy moms tries to do is to go out and buy all the right foods for a healthy meal but then they get so busy they don’t actually cook the healthy meals. The food spoils, or ends up not being used in the meal as planned, and then what, you didn’t save money or eat healthier. So this year resolve to make your cooking easier. Find several easy recipes that you like and that are easy to cook and shop for meals that are convenient for your busy life.
This goes hand in hand with easy daily routine – may be try Amazon Fresh
if you don’t get enough time to shop for home cooked meals.
This year I resolve to make better decisions with my money.
You may be tempted to make this year’s New Year’s resolution to get out of debt. You are probably already working toward this goal, and this year, your resolutions are going to be easy ones. Ones you can keep. Getting out of debt is a big goal and it isn’t something you can necessarily do quickly. You didn’t get into debt overnight so getting out of it may just take some time. This year, though, you can make some changes that will help you from diving deeper into debt and help you to start preparing for a better life in the future. Instead of focusing on getting out of debt commit this year focusing on not creating more debt.
My thinking is spend your money wisely and every point until now is adding up – if you cook at home less wastage of food and less money on eating out, same way working out at home means less money spent for gym membership that is not being used…
This year I resolve to stop over-scheduling.
In your attempt to be a great mom, you take your kids to soccer, dance, gymnastics, go to the parent-teacher meetings, and juggle all the responsibilities that you have at your job. That is enough to make anybody cranky and stressed out. At the end of the day, although you worked hard all day, you may feel like nothing was accomplished. You didn’t have time to sit down all day, yet you got nothing done around the house, dinner was served out of a paper bag, and your kids barely had time to tell you about their day. Take this year to commit to spending more time with your family and say no to over-scheduling.
This is the most important one for me – we tend to over schedule for our kids, I have decided only 2 activities at a time for my kids – that gives the kids a chance to enjoy what they are doing rather than it being a burden. We are switching swimming out for ice skating so my older one would only have to worry about 2 classes – ballet and ice skating.!!
What is the best christmas gift for your kid’s teacher or a day care provider?? I have often seen parents have this question. Over the period of time, I have developed my thought process on this. But I was introduced to a new concept this year when my daughter started a new school. Here we have a little teacher’s survey that we do at the beginning of the school year where the teachers tell you about their favorite things – so when it is time to get them something you know what is the best option available. Check with your class parents may be you already have such list available as I have seen a few schools using that. In her class we pull funds together and get her a gift card for her favorite place which is a great idea!
Other than that anything person home made, hand made is alway appreciated. If you have multiple teachers gift cards from Starbucks – you can never go wrong with it. But my favorite option has always been amazon gift cards. What ever amount you need their gift cards start as low as $10 and comes with a beautiful card or gift box if you are purchasing higher amount cards! Amazon has been my goto gift card for a while now – as they can buy anything they want from the comfort of their home. And with Prime membership gift cards arrive in as little as one day! Awesome!! And of course if it is a last minute thing – go for eGift card comes with beautiful design you can either email it or just print it out!!
If you haven’t already bought something and are interested in getting Amazon gift cards check out the following link – Gift Cards
Today’s blog – Top 9 Most Embarrassing Things My Kid Has Said About a Stranger Who’s Standing About Four Inches Away From Us from nickmom.com!
#9 ”WHO IS THAT LADY?”
#8 ”Did you hear that lady fart?”
#7 ”WAIT, IS THAT A LADY OR A MAN?”
#6 ”Why is the principal so fat?”
#5 ”WHY DOES THAT LADY HAVE HAIR ON HER LIP?”
#4 ”Why does that lady have butter all over her teeth?”
#3 ”When will the priest stop talking?”
#2″THAT LADY IS REALLY, REALLY OLD, RIGHT?”
#1 ”That man walking his dogs is a stranger, right, Mom? If he asks me to look at puppies, I will say NO!”
Have you started your Christmas decorations yet? For us we get started on it right after Thanksgiving if we are still in town. This time around it was raining all through Saturday and Sunday and it seemed like a perfect time to get the Christmas tree and ornaments out – Need less to say we use a fake tree… We set it up and let our little once put ornaments on the tree…. First experience for my 2 year old! They had an awesome time doing this…. So we are set with out Christmas tree, luckily we also put up the lights outside the house on Saturday morning before it started pouring… But I still have to get the gifts and put their stockings out….
It is always a problem to get some great stocking stuffers which makes the kids jump with joy, and I am just starting to look around…. Here are some of my favorites from Amazon….